Having great communication skills is critical to your success in life…

Transforming communication is a series of seminars that show you how you can radically improve your relationships, simply by changing the way that you communicate.

“Can it really be that easy?” I hear you ask…

Transforming communication takes skills that you are already an expert in using and shows you how to apply them more effectively. What this means is that you get more results for the same or less effort.

So how do you do that ?

Well first you have to understand that you are taught to communicate in a way that doesn’t use cooperative strategies. You have been taught by just about every body that you ever knew or met, that everyone else, is “different” to you…

Now in some respects that is a true statement…Everyone is unique…However, what  you were never taught to take account of, is the ways that you are similar to others.  except of course in times of major conflict , such as war. where your leaders unite you against the “common enemy.”

Unfortunately the common enemy’s leaders are also saying the same about YOU.

There are different types of conflict. Three to be precise…

Understanding what they are is the first step in discovering ways that you can resolve those issues in such a way that everyone wins. When everyone wins there are no feelings of resentment or anger, because the other person got the better of you.

There are also no feelings of guilt because you got the better of the other guy.

This is important because most conflicts ( which are really just disagreements about who has the most important values ) come about because of

1/ a lack of understanding of what is being requested

2/ A lack of agreement about the use of resources ( conflict of needs )

3/ A conflict of values where the underlying ethics of each person are so far apart that they seem irreconcileable.   ( In most instances, this is not the case )

 

What Transforming Communication teaches is ways that you can cross those chasms of communication, that seem unbridgeable, and also how to make all your relationships more satisfying…

 

 

 

Michael and Evelyne

PS if you have any questions about how you can use Transforming Communication to improve your relationships you can contact us using the contact form…