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Dear frustrated and fed up friend,
You already know how it makes you feel when you can’t get other people to understand those important points that you’re trying to get across. Especially when they ridicule you or try to deny the truth of what you’re saying and you either want to scream or just storm off out of sheer frustration.
I was there once too.
You already know how important your communication skills are but they’re a bit like your health. You don’t think about them until your relationships are going down the tubes. It’s not until you realize, yet again, that you’re up to your ears and fed up to the back teeth with “stupid” misunderstandings. And worst of all you can’t for the life of you figure out a way to change it.
I would love to tell you that there’s an instant fix. You know like a pill you can take or a mantra you can say and that in just ten minutes or less you will be the proud owner of the super dooper relationship repair kit and it will magically transform your life…. A mere 37 seconds after you take off the cellophane .
But I can’t… and I won’t… because I’d be lying and it wouldn’t be fair on you, to build up your hopes like that, knowing they’d be dashed.
It takes longer than ten minutes to change habits that you got taught over your whole lifetime. And that’s all that the way you build relationships is. It’s a habit. And what that means is that to get the results from your world that you want, may take a bit longer…
…Sometimes it takes as long as a week to start to change your habits and see results.
Allow me to introduce myself. I’m Mike Noone I’m an NLP trainer and I specialise in showing people ways to get better relationships by using skills they already know well. The trouble is that these skills are absolutely useless to you if you use them in the wrong way or in the wrong place. Along with my partner Evelyne Draper we have put together something for you that we think is pretty amazing.
Allow me to tell you more as there’s quite a tale behind this. But before I do that I want to let you know what this relationship building system does and why it’s so important.
You already know how to talk to people. You already know how to create rapport. You are hard wired for it, by design.
What you are not hard wired for or designed for is all the extra data and sensory input that you’re getting in the 21st Century.Nor are the people around you that you spend time with every day.
It’s not your fault but you suffer anyway.
One of the things that happens is that your stress ends up multiplying like a virus in a petri dish because everyone around you is adding their little bit of stress to the mix.
Stress is a killer and one of the biggest causes of stress is fighting with those that you love; those you work for; your kids; your employees. Think about it….
I have research that shows you will live longer if you’re happier
So the converse side of this is that if you are happy and relaxed then you will live longer and you can get some of the facts about it here. >>>>> Research shows.. <<<<<In fact if you are happy and relaxed you will live, on average 3-5 years longer and the added bonus is that you will actually enjoy that extra time.
Many communications courses show you how to browbeat others into submission and really let them know how you feel about stuff and WHY it’s all their fault.
This is known as assertiveness and I’m sure that you’re familiar with it.You’ve probably already been at both ends of it so I’ll let you remember what that feels like.
But there’s so much more to it than confidence and assertiveness because the thing about that type of communication is this….
Most times BOTH of you lose
What the Transforming communication system does is it increases the “no problem area” in your relationships and through some clever but simple techniques allows you to decrease the conflict areas.
It also teaches you how to be relaxed and confident, almost instantly as well as how to say your piece in a way that the other person cannot dispute the truth of what you have said. And without them getting ratty at you either.
Now does this mean that you will never disagree with another human being as long as you live. Definitely not.
The Transforming Communication system allows you to handle most circumstances but can’t prevent them happening. At least, not yet…
Nope !
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As I said earlier there’s a bit of a story here. It started around three or so years back. Maybe longer.
We were all done…proudly standing in front of the class! Our certificates in hand, when the trainer for this course said something that changed my life.
ONLY 1% of the people on the planet
…have the time and the money to do this training. That was ok until I realized that meant that 99% of the population is NOT going to take advantage of this cutting edge stuff.
It shocked me !
It’s no wonder there’s so many divorces, wars, road rage and folks who are just downright grumpy.
Now being a bit of a stand up guy for both rights and responsibilities, blowing people to Kingdom come just because they have different opinions to you isn’t my idea of democratic. Nor is yelling and screaming at people because they don’t understand you.
To me, common sense, ( the most uncommon commodity in the world ) says that if you listen and then understand what those with different perspectives have to say then
1/ You are more likely to be able to influence them because they’ll know you’ve listened to them.
2/ It will save a fortune on bombs, divorce attorneys and alimony payments and other weapons of mass destruction and we can divert that money into rebuilding industry and creating jobs for people.
3/ And because people will have jobs and money they will have the time to create safe neighborhoods without any foreclosures which means the country will be happier.
Back to the 1%
My partner Evelyne said why not put it up on the interweb so more people can get this stuff. Now straight away I could sense that this was something brilliant. That was around three years ago and despite the fact that I knew squat about the internet, I was inspired by the idea nonetheless.
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Inspired enough to move to the third world to cut costs and live off of the proceeds of selling my dream house while we learned and did what was needed.
Talk about motivated…
After, at last count, at least four attempts to put this online; thousands of hours spent doing audio, and video compressing it all, using trial, error, making mistakes and endless cups of tea. We finally are there.
So after all of that, you’re probably curious about why we would spend so much time energy and money doing this.
Simple
Because this training changes lives. In as little as 4 days you can start to feel more confident , happy, powerful and in control.
And you have heard that before so I’m going to prove it to you if you’ll let me but…
ON ONE CONDITION
You must promise on the life of those nearest and dearest to you that you will not abuse the power that I’m about to hand you. It will cause you endless bad ju ju if you do.
You will be rated by the world as lower than a psychopathic terrorist with a case full of narcotics outside of the school playground.
If you are not going to use these skills then just hit the back button now. This is only for those who are really serious about using these skills ethically.
Transforming communication is like having your own personal tool box filled with
all of the things you’ll ever need to create strong and enduring relationships. The sort of relationships where you feel like you really count and are important to the other people there.
I’m not going to bang on about how much you need this stuff as only you can know if you’re getting the results from your life that you really want, or not.
All I will say is this…
Look at the worlds top performers in any field and you will immediately notice the thing they all have in common.
They get on really well with the people that are important in life.
People like their family and their partner. The people they work with or for. People who work for them and their friends and neighbors.
You owe it to yourself to think about how much better your life would be if only you had better relationships.
If you want to lay your hands on the first three modules of the transforming communication course absolutely free then simply leave your name and email address in the box below.
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