Is it possible to have deeply satisfying and successful relationships?
You may well wonder.
Especially if you and your partner have just had an argument that you’ve had countless times before. Or you’ve just had one of those complicated conversations in your effort to get things done, partly spoken words, partly signal codes and mind reading, that unexpectedly flared into your own private war zone. You are probably wondering why the simple conversation you started a minute ago suddenly turned into an exploding bomb.
The triggers could be anything: clothes on the floor, milk spilled on the counter, unwashed dishes, an unexpected large credit card bill, an overflowing rubbish bin, a shrug, a remark… I’m sure you would agree that no matter how small the event, when the atmosphere is right hostility sets in.
And although couples may be unhappy in their own ways, we all fight a similar fight, and get unhappy in a similar way for similar reasons. In relationships we say the same things and harden into the same positions. We get alienated and distressd. And all of a sudden we wonder where love has gone…
Read the whole article on relationship communication here…How can you have the loving and caring relationship you deserve?